1. Personal Awareness
The most effective tool the counsellor has is his or her own sense of self. The greater the level of self and other awareness the counsellor has, the greater will be the capacity to respond to the client(s) and to choose appropriate tools for creative intervention.
Training programmes need to emphasise moment by moment awareness of the counsellor's self in relationship and the counsellor's ability to articulate this awareness.
This involves the ability to:
- Recognise the uniqueness and experience of oneself and that of others.
- Communicate one's awareness of one's self and others to other human beings.
- Monitor events in one's own life, to make decisions for the future and to recognise this same ability in others.
Applicants need to be competent in a wide range of counselling skills including the ability: to make initial contact with clients; to develop rapport; to demonstrate high levels of empathy, flexibility, and the creative use of questions; to use confrontation and challenge; to facilitate communication between the couple, and to use skills within a framework of demonstrated neutrality.
- A deeper level of core relationship counselling skills, including
- The ability to recognise the complexity of patterns in relationship issues and to work with these to produce change.
Applicants need to have a theoretical understanding of human behaviour and the tools being used in the counselling room. In relationship counselling this includes knowledge of the social, legal, and ethical factors that influence relational life. Specifically, training should cover the following:
3.1. Individual developmental theory as it impacts on family relationships.
i.) Sexuality and sexual counselling.
ii) Alcohol and drug dependence.
3.6. A theoretical and basic legal framework for understanding separation and divorce; associated aspects of grief and loss; issues of single lifestyle, parenting, re-partnering and step parenting.
3.7. A knowledge of professional ethics as it relates to counselling in general and the specific ethical issues of couple counselling.
3.8. Introduction to supervision, professional consultation, personal psychotherapy and on-going counsellor survival and growth.
3.9. How and when to make appropriate referrals.
4. Conclusion
The Australian Association of Relationship Counsellors (AARC) Inc. does not accredit training. Each applicant is considered fully on his or her own merits and their individual training path assessed. Attention is directed to the Association’s statement on Clinical Competence . No one training programme can offer, or in any way advertise, that it leads to AARC membership.
Programmes that have been designed to meet the guidelines, or part thereof, as outlined in this document can state: "AARC Inc. guidelines have been taken into account in the design of this course." Such statement must be in the "small print" of any advertising material and must not in any way be used to suggest AARC Inc. approval or endorsement of the course, nor offer any guarantee of AARC Inc. acceptance.
